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Dearest Aunty Temilolu,
Your article- “Parents, start protecting your girls from future wife-battering!” really gave me hope because I’m so afraid of marriage. I don’t have a mother to run to and the way my father and step-mother are managing their matrimonial home is nothing to write about. But I built my hope on the solid rock of Christ. He will direct the right man to me and my marriage will be blissful (I believe it because I find it difficult to trust men these days). Please ma, continue the write-up so that we will know where to start from in choosing the right partner and managing the home. God bless you ma!
My darling and wonderful aunty Temilolu,
Your article- “Parents, start protecting your girls from future wife-battering!” is fantastic and encouraging. Thank you for speaking out on our behalf and reminding our parents of their responsibility while also teaching us the way to go so as not to make mistakes that could frustrate our lives. May God in His infinite mercy bless you and reward you because you have been changing lives and impacting lives positively. May all your endeavours be successful and may the Lord strengthen you to do more. May the Lord increase and enlarge your coast. Thank you and keep it up. Love you so much!
My darling, precious, glorious, dignified, world-famous and heavenly celebrated Nigerian sisters,
Many thanks for your constant messages. I love you all so much and truly wish you a most beautiful life. Last week, I promised to give your parents tips on how to protect you from getting into an abusive marriage. I encourage you to assimilate these tips, share them with your friends and possibly keep these articles for future purpose. God bless you all!
Tips on protecting your girls from future wife-battering/abusive marriage
- Lay a solid spiritual foundation in their early years
This cannot be over-emphasised! Most of the problems we encounter in life are as a result of spiritual dullness. We are quick to forget or perhaps ignorant of the fact that we have a super contender of our destinies in form of the devil who constantly wages war against everything good God has created. He has turned children who were born to be wonders to be known all over the world to destitute. He has sown perpetual sorrow into many homes. He has used a lot of humans to make life most unbearable for so many good people and he comes in without warning. He flexes his crazy muscles in the lives of children with very great destinies. As it is, this generation of children are even more at risk because these are the last days and evil is definitely going to wax stronger. 2 Timothy 3:13 Sexual harassment, indecent assault and general pressure on the girl-child will increase, sexual objectification and sheer disregard for the female folk will sky-rocket, most girls would rather use their body to get what they need than choose the path of hard work and dignity, many more girls will grow up in broken homes, your girls will be exposed to more wolves in sheep’s clothing, I could go on and on. Believe it or not, all of the above and much more would determine your child’s sense and sensibility, the path she follows, the choices she makes in life and the type of man she eventually cleaves to that is if she ever considers marriage because more and more ladies are scared of marriage which is a wonderful institution created by God which could actually complete one’s destiny and give one heaven on earth (as planned by God). But on the other hand, it has the enormous power, in fact it can be used as a bait by the devil to totally destroy a life or send it out of this world!
So, knowing how tumultuous the world is going to become, your child needs to be spiritually prepared as early as possible. You need to commit yourself to that and ensure she grows spiritually by the day by loving God with all her heart and rubbing minds with Him by studying the bible, following His principles and allowing Him take absolute control of her destiny! I tell you, you would have a super-natural kid who would excel in such an uncommon manner in all her endeavours and a miraculous time-bomb waiting to explode. Going to church is not enough! Sadly, a lot of churches are spiritually luke-warm today and besides even the devil parades the church, steals souls and you’ll be perplexed at what kids from some churches which are citadels of holiness are up to. I counsel so many girls daily so I can attest to that. Mum, dad, are you really committed to taking care of these kids? Don’t you love them? Don’t you want them to be happy in future? Don’t you want peace of mind in your old age? Is it too much to monitor and fine-tune every aspect of their lives?
To be continued!
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